I've been thinking....
I really love blogging, I love doing reviews, I love meeting new people, I love having a journal about my life.
But I'm getting to the point where I don't want to follow people anymore or become close with bloggers. Some people are just becoming too fake for me and that is one thing I cannot stand. It drives me insane!
I try not to worry about the amount of followers I have, but I will admit that I have to pay attention to them to have enough followers for giveaways (NO, this is not the main reason, I like having followers!! I love having people interested in who me, scott and the fur babies are)
I'm pretty much at my point right now, that I'm going to stop looking at followers, I will continue to do reviews and giveaways, but I'm going to really be sure of who I become "friends" with... But even in real life, I have come to the realization that if you only want to talk to me when it's convient to you and you tell me that you want to be friends and you only want to be friends on your time, then you aren't worth being in my life! I need friends that are going to be with me through everything and not just be there for me when they want to be.
I have had a couple close friends now become very distant friends...I know life gets busy and stuff, but really, if we were really that great of friends, that wouldn't be a reason to never text, never return texts, return e-mails.
I think people are also getting a little too petty and complaining about everything (yes, I know I am complaining about this, but I haven't complained in awhile :))
It's just really weird to become friends with people you meet on the internet and then they become something you thought they weren't! And they turn out to be fake! They tell you on thing, but do another. Same thing with IRL friends...Why can't people just grow up and say..Hey I don't really want to be friends or I don't feel like talking to you...I'm sick of playing the one sided friendship thing! SICK OF IT!! And if I keep letting it happen, then they are going to fully take advantage of me...
I have bought people things, wrote them nice cards and get nothing in return...I guess I just let it happen, because this happened in Junior High too...Or maybe I went back in time and I'm in JH now...Who knows, but I do know one thing, I'm done with it....If you don't want to be friends...Tell me...If you don't want to talk to me...Tell me...We are all grown ups here!! Yes, It will suck, but you know what...I will survive! I will make it and be just fine!!
Sorry for the rant...I'm just super sick of things...I do so much for people and get nothing in return...A thank you would be nice every now and then!! If I buy you something, I do not expect something back, but I do expect a fricken thank you!! Is it that hard?
OK...Enough rant! I'm only working part day tomorrow and not at all on Friday, so I will be back with the winners!
I really do appreciate each and every one of you! I appreciate that you are coming along with us on our boring life journey! :) But some people are just fake and it's sickening!
I feel like I have know some of you for a very long time, but some of you just need to grown up! It's blog world...I know you want people to think one thing about you and you really are the other, but it's time to grown up! Stop being fake and start being you!!